I have a
body. You have a body. Would you call it yours? Unquestionably. You decide what
to do with it. That’s one of the obvious privileges that everyone has. But one
of the most important and life-changing rights of a woman is the right to have
a baby or not. As Margaret Sanger said, “No woman can call herself free until
she can choose consciously whether she will or will not be a mother.” There is
no right and wrong in the question of whether to abort a baby—it’s a
confusingly shaded area of gray. However, it should be a valid option for a
woman to take if she needs to.
If anyone’s worried about whether legalized abortion will make everyone
run to Planned Parenthood just because they can, think again. Abortion is a mentally scarring experience
for the woman going through the procedure. Many women only go through with this
if they absolutely cannot keep the
baby. If abortion is not a legal choice, many women, because of their
situation, will try to get one anyway. These illegal procedures are extremely
unsafe—most of those who get them suffer permanent damage to their reproductive
organs, which will prevent them from having children later when they are ready. Some even die—and if you are
really pro-‘life’, legal abortion would save the life of the mother, instead of
having the mother and the fetus both die. Women also suffer mental damage from
the lack of proper counseling. Banning abortion does nothing but put women in
danger.
One of the main causes for abortion is getting pregnant when you’re too
young to raise a child. Girls get pregnant at ages like 15—ninth grade. What
were you doing in ninth grade? Probably stalking your crush online and worrying
about homework. Yet, girls just like these are suddenly responsible for another
being. And yes, you can say that they made a mistake and that there are
consequences for that, but almost no young girl is ready for motherhood. You
can punish them in other ways, but forcing them to have a baby when they’re not
prepared physically or mentally is just plain cruel—to both the girl and the
fetus. Keeping the baby can hinder their life. They may not have any familial
support to help with a child, not be able to continue school, and they probably
don’t even have the money to raise a kid.
Another reason to get an abortion is if that child’s life won’t be good
even if it is born. A mother may not
have the resources to feed and care for a child—she might not even have enough
food to feed herself and any existing kids she could already have. A baby won’t
develop properly if it isn’t fed and sheltered, and it may die even if it is delivered. It’s choosing between two
things regarded as wrongs in our society—the willful ending of an unborn
fetus’s existence, and giving birth to a child that may be unwanted for most of
its life.
But there is one last reason to legalize abortion: pregnancy as a result
of crime. When a woman is the victim of rape, incest, and/or child abuse and
becomes pregnant, she doesn’t want the person who did that to her to be her
child’s father. It’s someone who took advantage of her. Does anyone want a baby
that was forced upon them? The baby is not the woman’s choice. Pro-life
believers have to try to see that the woman is not just a place for a fetus to
grow and then be discarded. In this situation, you have to choose between a
scared young woman and a fetus that might not even be able to think yet.
Making abortion legal would give women a safe last resort. Making this
illegal basically deprives women of the rights to their own bodies. Why would
you do that? I don’t want anyone to think that I am supporting abortion as a
form of birth control. I am just saying that when there is no other choice,
women should have the access to abortion and counseling. I want to show people
that legalizing abortion won’t make women abuse the right. I close with this
quote from Frederica Mathewes-Green: “No woman wants an abortion as she wants
an ice cream cone or a Porsche. She wants an abortion as an animal caught in a
trap wants to gnaw off its own leg.”
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